My years as caregiver for my husband were some of the most challenging years of my life. Not because of the physical labor, because there were very few times I had to assist him with any kind of personal care. The emotional strain I experienced watching my strong, vibrant, independent husband slowly deteriorate affected me greatly. Standing by watching him struggled day after day in pain as we desperately searched to find something that would bring him some comfort.
A wife caring for her husband faces a unique challenge. She must care for her husband in a way that helps maintain his independence while doing what is best for him. I was a caregiving wife for a decade and it was tough.
My husband Scott, one of the gentlest men I know, loved doing things for others. When he needed care, it was difficult for him to let me do things for him. I constantly tried to balance how much was enough and what was too much.
My years as his caregiver taught me so many things and I’d like to share with other wives. It is possible to care for your husband in a way that helps him maintain a sense of worth and to take care of yourself. I will official launch the virtual Caregiving Wife Empowerment (CWE) this month. Visit my event’s page for more information.
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