Setting Goals

Happy New Year
“May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed.” (Psalm 20:4)

Each year I set personal and professional goals for myself. I was a little concerned about how the pandemic would affect my 2020 goals. Imagine my surprise when I reviewed my goals and saw that in some areas, I exceeded what I set out to do.

I am a firm believer that an idea is just an awareness until you write it on paper. Ideas on paper are goals. When you write out your goals, you have something that you can work toward. Setting goals helps me to stay on track. I’m less likely to yield to laziness when my goals are documented. When there is a measurable goal in front of me, it’s easier to stay on target. I can record my progress along the way. Writing out my goals aid in providing clarity regarding what steps I need to take.

I also like to challenge myself in goal setting. My father used to tell us to reach for the stars. He said, “you may not reach them but as long as you aim up you won’t hit anything on the ground.” At least one of my goals each year needs to be something that will require me to step far outside of my comfort zone.

This year, one of my goals is to be more skilled in my writing. Here are some steps that will help me achieve this goal. Enroll in a writing class and read a book each month unrelated to what I’m studying or preparing for. I will continue my involvement with my writing group and attend two writing conferences in 2021. Lastly, I will submit an article or devotional every other month to a magazine, or some other outlet.

Now, why am I telling you this? Will you help to hold me accountable? Follow me on social media to be sure I am following through. And you have my permission to call me out if I’m not doing what I have set out to do. We are helpers to one another. Working together we can accomplish our goals.

FYI: That’s only one of my goals for 2021, there are several others on my list.

Evelyn Johnson-Taylor Ph.D.

Faith for the Caregiver

 

We recognize November as National Family Caregivers Month to honor the over 40 million
caregivers across the country who support aging parents, ill spouses or other loved ones with
disabilities who remain at home.

 

“Beon your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong,” (1 Corinthians 16:13).

It can be a daily struggle for caregivers, to maintain continual firm faith. We expect caregivers to manage the physical and emotional needs of the ones they care for. Sometimes dealing with spiritual needs can be part of a caregiver’s responsibilities. This is a hard place to be.

The constant cheerleader. Pouring out so much of themselves into a loved one who needs
care. Some without appreciation or recognition. Who cheers the caregiver? It can be a challenge
to stay positive and stand strong.

Many caregivers will not expose their authentic emotions. They bottle their feeling as a
means of protection against experiencing the hurt and pain. Other caregivers may become
depressed and experience hopelessness.

Caring for a loved one can be a constant reminder of suffering and pain. The negative
health reports, the seemingly inexhaustible complaints, and watching a loved one struggle may
weaken the caregiver’s faith.

In my decade of caregiver for my husband, there were instances I experienced despair.
But it was those moments that reminded me of the faithfulness of God. When my anguish was
great, and it felt as if God had left me to complete the task on my own. It was my faith in Him
that reminded me he is still with me. Faith in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, that every promise
He gave is true.  In my weak moments, he was my strength, and I trusted that He would not let
me fall.

Caregivers, he is with you. Hold fast to your faith, and your conviction. Everything you
believed to be true about God when the light is shining is true in the dark moments. He is
still there. Just when you think you can’t go any farther, remind yourself of one of the many
promises in His Word. Stand strong, the truths from God’s Word are sure.

 

Sing Anyway

Psalm 137:4 “How shall we sing the Lord’s song in a foreign land?”

During the exile, the Israelites gathered at the River of Babylon. It was a place where they came together to mourn. The land was unfamiliar to them; it wasn’t what they were used to. Have you ever been in an unfamiliar place in life? Like a global pandemic! 

Our world is in a strange season. Picking up your mask is as normal as grabbing the car keys when you leave the house. Laying out your clothes for the next day now includes finding a mask that matches your fashion colors. While many are grieving lost, of loved ones, jobs, income, and the list goes on and on our first thought is to complain, not sing.

While Israel was in captivity, their captors asked them to sing. This was a way to torment those who were already feeling misplaced. There were no temples for the Israelites to worship. Their allegiances was to Jerusalem. When I read Psalm 137 I can identify with being in a season where a song is the last thing on my mind. My first thought is to complain, but then I remember that even in the tough season God is with me. Knowing that He promised never to leave me, Hebrews 13:5 KJV: For He hath said, “I will never leave thee, nor forsake.” Scripture records the same words in the Old Testament Deuteronomy 31:6 NIV “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Whether it be physical or emotional turmoil, God promised to be with you. In this current season,  there is much anxiety. We just want it to be over. Surely seven months is long enough. Only God knows when the pandemic will end. When it started earlier this year, I never imagined it would continue this long. I thought maybe a few weeks and the season would change, after all that’s what seasons do. We saw Spring, Summer, and now Fall. The seasons of the year have changed, but we remain in an unfamiliar place.

In those moments when you feel as if some event in life is holding you hostage. You will not feel like singing. It may be grief from the death of a loved one, a divorce, or another significant life change. Know that God is with you. Even with the great shifting our world has experienced, we can still sing. Not because of the outcome, because we don’t know when it will end. But we can sing because we know the God who controls everything. We can sing a song in a strange season because God has not changed, and He is with us even in the dark moments of life.

Go ahead, pick up the microphone, or lift your voice and sing.

 

Purpose or Passion

cropped-evelyn-j-taylor-a-womans-call-banner1.jpgGod created each of us for a purpose. Before He formed you in your mother’s womb, God already knew what He had planned for you. How does passion relate to purpose? Passion is more about emotions. Purpose is the reason we do what we do. Our purpose affects others while passion makes one feel good inwardly because of outward actions.

While passion and purpose can influence each other, they are not the same. We can have many passions throughout our lives, but our purpose is the same forever. Purpose may look different in each season of life, but the core does not change. God created us in His image to do His will. Our purpose is what we do in this world to accomplish God’s vision for our lives. How you accomplish it may change, but not your purpose.

If you are struggling to discover ways to fulfill your purpose, be attentive to the people who God brings into your path. What do they ask of you? Often God will use other people to pull out of us what we don’t want to give. If people are constantly coming to you with the same request, then you may have what they need.  As a mother of young children, women could ask me to mentor them. I had no interest in doing that. My hands were full. The Holy Spirit revealed to me that one way to fulfill my purpose was to impact the lives of women. Well, twenty-six years later I’m still impacting the lives of women. It looks a little different from how I started, but the purpose is the same. Now I write books and speak to women. I teach classes for women, coach, and mentor women.

I made excuses why I was not the person. Thankfully, God in His mercy used me, anyway.  Your dreams, passions, and desires may or may not connect to your purpose. Your passion will drive you, it gives you energy, while your purpose tells you who you are. We can be passionate about many things, but our purpose will give us clarity. Your purpose will be what you offer mankind and how you fulfill God’s plan for your life. Only you can fulfill your purpose, others may be passionate about the same things that you are passionate about, but only you can accomplish it the way God designed you to accomplish it. One excellent rule of thumb to keep you on track is to always strive to bring glory to God in all that you do and you will fulfil your purpose. To read more about this topic, visit my website and purchase my books.

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Value of a Season

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“Each season can teach us something. How we respond is totally up to us”

The experiences we have each season can either block us or propel us. In our world today, we are facing challenges like we’ve never seen before. Social distancing is changing the way we live. Our church buildings are less accessible to us. In seasons like these we can experience sadness because we lack the company of others. Many people are uncomfortable being alone because God created us to be in relationships.  In Genesis 2:18 “And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”

This season of quarantine and social distancing can be especially difficult for widows and widowers. Many are just beginning to adjust to living without their spouses. Now they are separated from their support systems making life extra difficult.

How do we combat loneliness during this time of isolation? I’ve used my time to reach out to friends and family that I normally don’t have time to connect with.  I’ve reached out to widows, caregivers, and others that I know who are alone. I’ve caught up on projects and spent extra time in prayer and worship. It’s important that during this time we give what we want to receive. I am convinced that the best way to combat any challenge is to pour into someone else’s life. Try offering encouragement and hope to those who may experience fear and anxiety during this season.

How about working on a project you may have pushed aside? Perhaps God has placed something in your heart, and in this time of reflection and solitude you can work toward that goal. Start writing that book you’ve always wanted to write. Teach yourself a new skill. Everything is on YouTube these days. Maybe you’ve always dreamed of starting a business. This is a good time to write out a business plan. In my book A Woman’s Call Living a Life of Purpose, the chapter titled Entrepreneurship; I cover some of what you need to know to start a business. Take some of the free time you now have to sit down and write out a plan, listing steps on how to proceed. It won’t always be like this and wouldn’t you love to be a step ahead when things turn around?

Many unbelievers are searching for hope in this unprecedented time. What a great opportunity to share the hope of Jesus Christ. A phone call to encourage someone or pray with them is a good thing to do. Even amid everything that is going on, people still have problems. Their marital problems didn’t suddenly subside because of a pandemic. They probably are worse because couples are spending more time together. Children didn’t suddenly stop making unwise decisions. Financial issues have most likely gotten worse. What I am saying is that many still need encouragement and hope. Shut downs and quarantines do not hinder the power of prayer.  God can still meet people right where they are and do whatever they need Him to do.

Now that your schedule is free, spend quality time in prayer, studying, praise and worship.

Remember, God is always with you.

“Let your manner of living be without covetousness, and be content with such things as ye have. For He hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee” Hebrews 13:5.

Dr. Evelyn Johnson-Taylor
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Surprised by Suffering

by Julie Zine Coleman @JulieZColeman

 

An old friend of mine recently suffered a medical problem which required extensive surgery. The whole ordeal caught her off-guard. “I never expected to have to go through anything like this,” she sheepishly confessed to me. “I assumed that the Lord would protect me from suffering.” Psalm 121 had been her mantra for many years: “He who watches over you will not slumber… the Lord will keep you from all harm…”(Psalm 121:3, 7 NIV).

 

My friend had it half-right. We can count on the presence and care of a God who misses no detail. Nothing can separate us from his love or the salvation we received through his grace. But to expect a life devoid of suffering would necessitate ignoring a large portion of Scripture.

 

Whether we like it or not, suffering is part of God’s plan for his people.

 

In the pivotal point of Mark’s gospel, Jesus asked his disciples who they thought he was. Peter jumped in with a breakthrough revelation: “You are the Messiah.” Jesus quickly cautioned him not to tell anyone.

 

Jesus knew the disciples’ understanding of the nature of his messiahship was still inaccurate. The common Jewish messianic expectation was based on Old Testament Scriptures promising a conquering hero. He would come to liberate Israel from her oppressors, set up a kingdom, and reign from Jerusalem. The disciples were excited about this. So they anxiously awaited the day Jesus would come into his own.

 

Many prophecies do reveal him as a conquering hero and ruling king. Yet others portray him as a suffering servant, facing rejection by men and even by God. Isaiah wrote, “It was the Lord’s will to crush him and cause him to suffer… He was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds, we are healed” (Isaiah 53:10, 5 NIV).

 

Suffering would be part of the messianic plan. In fact, it was The Plan.

 

Peter then actually took the Lord aside and rebuked him. Jesus recognized Peter’s emotional reaction for what it was: personal disillusionment. The life of ease and power the disciples anticipated was quickly fading away as Jesus revealed what the future had in store.

 

Peter needed to adjust his messianic expectations. “You do not have in mind the things of God,” Jesus told him, “but merely human concerns” (Matthew 16:23b NIV).

 

Jesus then took the disciples a step further. “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me,” he told them. Suffering would be part of the plan for them as well.

 

We will experience suffering on many levels. Physical pain, disease, and the effects of old age will intrude into our lives. Grief will drive us to our knees as we struggle to survive great losses. All of us will experience hurts and offenses that are difficult to forgive. But as believers, those things are not without purpose; suffering is a perspective-changing crucible. The unimportant details that would have distracted us in our walk with Him become trivial. With everything stripped away, we find that God is all that matters.

 

Peter eventually understood the purifying opportunity suffering presents. In his later years, he wrote: “He who has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, so as to live the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for the lusts of men, but for the will of God” (1 Peter 4:1-2 NIV).

 

Someday, suffering will no longer exist for us. We will no longer need suffering in our lives, because we will finally be complete. But until that time, count on suffering to be a part of your life. Embrace it as best you can, for it is evidence of a loving God at work in you.

 

“He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”                                                                                                                                                              2 Corinthians 12:9-10 NIV

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Julie-Coleman-headshot-295x300About the authorJulie Coleman helps others to understand and know an unexpected God. A popular conference and retreat speaker, she holds an M.A. in biblical studies. Julie is the managing editor for Arise Daily. When she is not glaring at her computer, she spends time with her grandchildren, gardening, or walking her neurotic dog. More on Julie can be found at unexpectedgod.com and Facebook.

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I’ll Do It All Differently (This Year)!

“Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.”     Joshua 1:9

Take Authority of Your Life

The phrase “I’ll do it all differently!” is the sentiment of thousands the first week of the New Year as planners are purchased and calendars reviewed.   Each new year the same thoughts and struggles are evident by the end of the first quarter of the year.  Beyond just saying “I’ll do it all differently” – you actually can!  Today I recommend that you downsize your life and focus on you.  It is not selfish. “Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start now and make a brand new ending.” – Carl Bard

Change Demands Attention to Priorities

First, daily quiet time is a primary source of spiritual self-care.  Secondly, consideration of your mental health and development is necessary for emotional stability, and lastly attention to your physical health and wellness, which all combine to create the essence of who you really are.  It is essential to your personal productivity and fulfillment of your life’s purpose to live in harmony with yourself.  Taking time for you decreases the volatile effects of undue stress on spirit, mind, and body.

Try one or more of these exercises: set aside quiet time (even if for brief periods); purchase a coloring book and color a page each day; or take a walk and turn your cell phone off.  These exercises will relax and renew each component of your being by nurturing the spirit, mind, and body. When scheduling your day, week or month, ask yourself a few questions: “God, is this your will?”, “How is this task going to prepare or assist me in my journey?”;  and “Do I really have the time to do this?”.   It is important to remember that it is OK (and not ungodly) to say, “No, I cannot do this at this time.”

It is Up to You (to Make and Keep Your Commitments to Change)

Retrain your responses, and do not allow yourself to be bullied by guilt or manipulated into accepting tasks you are not predestinated to do. Yes, you may have the gifts and skills; however, is it what God wants you to do?   During the process of downsizing your life, you will begin to find and schedule time for tasks that you have desired to do for years.

“They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself.”    ― Andy Warhol

“The steps of a good man (or woman) are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way.”         

Thank you  for keeping us on track.

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Thanksgiving

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Thanksgiving

 “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good his love endures forever.”

1 Chronicles 16:34 NIV

 

Heavenly Father

Thank you for all of your many blessings. We thank you for all that you have provided so that we may live the life you have designed for us to live. You have blessed us abundantly and we do not take your blessings for granted. During this season of thanksgiving let us remember those who are without. As we gather with family and friends, help us to be mindful of those who are sad and lonely. Remind us to share our blessings with others. Whether it is a kind word or gesture, may we always acknowledge that everything that we have comes from you. In Jesus Name I pray, Amen.

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Claim Yours Promises

So Joshua said to the Israelites: “How long will you wait before you begin to take possession of the land that the LORD, the God of your ancestors, has given you?”                                                                                                                                           Joshua 18:3 NIV

I tend to book early flights.

I like to get to my destination early in the day, so I can arrive and still have time to enjoy the sunlight of the day. This means I have to plan. Airports can be exhausting, and when I’m standing in a TSA line before sunrise, it helps to know I have a window seat waiting for me when I get on the plane.

Imagine my surprise when I recently boarded a plane only to find another passenger in my assigned seat! Now, on a midday flight, I don’t mind settling for an aisle seat. But the window seat is the best place for sleeping at that early hour. No worries about getting knocked by the beverage cart or slumping onto another passenger.

I’m not always the most assertive person, but in order to receive what was promised me, I had to inform my seatmate of his mistake. It meant a bit of shuffling and reorganizing as the middle seat was also occupied. I felt a little uncomfortable that I was causing my fellow passengers some inconvenience. But I couldn’t be timid. I needed to claim what had been promised.

Just before entering the Promised Land, Joshua told the Israelites that they should lay claim to what God had already given them. They were to take God at His word and step forward in trust. It would take action to receive their inheritance.

As with the Israelites, God has given us blessings that we have yet to claim. They are already ours, but we must step forward to receive them. Our obedience to God is the action necessary for him to release his promises to us. When we yield ourselves to his will, we are positioned to receive all that he has promised. As the Lord told Isaiah: “If you are willing and obedient, you shall eat the good of the land” (Isaiah 1:19 ESV).

When we belong to him, we don’t have to live in fear and anxiety. He promises to keep our hearts and minds in perfect peace as we step forward to trust him. “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you” (Isaiah 26:3 NIV). In the stressful times in life, we can receive the peace of God.

As Moses spoke to the Children of Israel encouraging them, we can have faith trusting that God will always be with us as well. “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you” (Deuteronomy 31:6 NIV).

The Apostle Paul wrote concerning the magnificent abilities of our God: “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us…” (Ephesians 3:20 NIV) We can be assured that he is able to do more than we can imagine. We don’t have to settle for less, nor do we have to worry that our present reality is all that he has for us. There is no need to be afraid to ask for what is rightfully ours.

Focusing on the promises of his Word rather than on a surrounding disturbance will allow you to enjoy all God has promised. Ask in trust, confident in a God who keeps his promises. Faith is more than saying we believe. Faith actually believes.

Change Brings Growth

Guest blogger- Linda Ray Center

“Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.” –John F. Kennedy

Growth is a task God sets before us. Change is a fast-forward journey to the future. You might be going through a change right now. It could be a beginning or an ending of a relationship, a move to another state, or an upcoming opportunity. There is power to see how God works His direction for our good. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to His purpose.”(Romans 8:28)

On a recent cruise, my day began with a walk around the ship. I filled my lungs with salty air and knew God was near. The warmth of sun on my face confirmed His presence. I felt it necessary to drop a few commitments when I returned home and invest in understanding God’s direction for my life. Sometimes I hear the “go” but not the how. The future is a mystery, so I started praying for wisdom. James 1:5 tells us, “If any of you lacks wisdom ask God.” In my prayer time, I asked the big question, “What’s next?”

Three years ago, I felt the call to write and speak about God’s goodness. After the divine nudge, I became acutely aware of my academic shortcomings and have struggled to accomplish this task. As a child, my focus in school was wrong. Moving to six different schools before I graduated from high school was difficult. Making new friends became the hardest part, and as a result, I concentrated more on fitting in than my education.

In short, I needed to relearn the fundamentals of writing. My journey began with short articles about relationships, but it grew into something bigger. I developed a strong leading to inspire children to take their education seriously.

I’m often stretched beyond what I think is achievable, but I know with God, all things are possible. Just as God equipped Moses, who had a speech disability and yet spoke and led his people. He gave Esther courage to face her calling. The Lord equips His children for the tasks He sets before them.

My passion for writing deepens more each day. God uses change to cause good things. Change brings opportunities to grow closer to Him.

How do you embrace change?

What growth opportunity taught you a valuable lesson?

Guest blogger

Linda Ray Center

Linda Ray Center is an author and inspirational speaker addressing the importance of education to children. As a communicator, she encourages God’s design in relationships of all kinds and for all ages. Center and her husband reside part-time between Tennessee and Florida. She loves her blended family and will showcase her grandchildren’s pictures at any given moment.

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